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**For confidentiality purposes her name has been changed**Debbie is a 13-year-old African American teenager. She originally signed up with the program a little over 2 years ago. She’s been matched twice, but both times the match ended prematurely when the mentors were unable to fulfill the commitment. So we’re looking for that “3rd time’s a charm” mentor for her!!
Debbie lives in a foster home with her guardian, an elderly woman with limited physical mobility. Debbie says she wants to “experience adventures,” and she enjoys going to the circus and movies. She also likes music, drawing and science experiments. She also enjoys being active by playing basketball and tennis.
For more information on becoming a mentor, please call Sedreana Saldana at 310-764-0955 ext. 127 or e-mail her at ssaldana@inmed.org.
Mentor Craig and Mentee Zakir are our match highlight for the month of March. Craig has already seen his mentee mature and grow into a young man from the time of their match in November 2009.
Mentor Craig says the program has “allowed me to share what God has blessed me with and to touch a young man’s life as he has touched mine.”
Craig also says, “Zakir is a bright, engaging young man and easy to befriend. He has become like a son or little brother to me and has enriched my life.”
When I asked him what has been the most memorable time he’s had with Zakir, he said it was at a Youth Sunday, where the youth lead praise and worship and give testimonies. He said Zakir read a poem that included how he felt the church welcomed him and treated him as a family member from the moment he arrived. A part of Zakir’s poem also described their relationship and what Craig meant to him. Craig said it was “extremely moving and brought me to tears.”
Mentor Craig and Mentee ZakirOn the other side, Mentee Zakir said that being matched with Craig “has changed my life tremendously. I say this because he introduced me to God where I was able to actively participate and engage in the Christian community. I felt I became holistic because I had found my overall purpose in life.”
When I asked him about his favorite time with Craig, Zakir said, “The best time we've had together from my perspective was probably when we went fishing. I say this because we got to spend quality time together, and I felt like I had an actual father figure for once in my life, one I knew would be there for the long run.”
Zakir said that one of the most valuable lessons Craig brought to his attention was to always have “integrity,” which to Zakir means “to do the right thing even when no one is watching.” Zakir says that Craig has been more than a mentor to him; he’s been like a dad, a teacher and most of all a friend. Zakir says he “love[s] him dearly” and says he prays that their relationship continues to grow.For more information on becoming a mentor, please call Sedreana Saldana at 310-764-0955 ext. 127 or e-mail her at ssaldana@inmed.org.
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